What Lies Beneath

Most first dates are typical. Once you meet a new man and agree to a date it usually comes down to going out to dinner somewhere with him. I had no problem with this ritual because not only do you enjoy a nice meal, you also have the opportunity to get to know each other through conversation. If the relationship doesn’t work out, you still get a nice meal. You win either way.

Some men will surprise you though and really put forth an effort to think of something fun and different for the first date experience. My female friends agree these creative and considerate men are normally the ones who will get a second date if in fact there is a connection. It’s pretty simple. As women, we can’t wait to see what idea they’ll come up with for the next time.

I recall a first date I had that was a bit out of the norm. He asked me if I would be interested in spending the day waterskiing. As a lover of all water sports I quickly accepted and showed up on a Saturday excited to spend the day on the river with him and a few friends of his.

The day was beautiful and the water calm as I zipped down the river. I’m fairly certain I impressed him with my ability to slalom without falling for a long period of time. It was now his turn. As his friend took over driving the boat, my date proceeded to ready himself to jump in the water. As he pulled off his t-shirt I couldn’t help but notice the three rather large round scars on his belly so I inquired. His response:

“During a heated argument with my ex-girlfriend, she shot me. I was being an asshole and I deserved it”.


Just Lovely…